Top 10 Reasons Not to Complain about 2010

A lot of people say, “Wow, Zora—you have so much going on! Food! Travel! Your job is so fabulous!”

It’s true–there’s a little fabulousness. But what’s really going on is the plight of all freelancers: Every week, I try 80 different things. If I’m lucky, one of them sticks maybe once a month. Because the success rate is so low, it’s hard to feel I accomplished anything. So please allow me a moment to consolidate the high points of this year—I found it surprisingly satisfying when I did it last winter.

1. I took a little time to enjoy the beach in Mexico. Tacking on just four more days than usual to my last research trip, in November, gave me a surprising amount of breathing room. Near the end, I actually spent the better part of a couple of days hanging out at the beach in Cozumel and snorkeling with my dad. Too bad those days were overcast and drizzly. But that in itself was educational—I’d forgotten what it was like to have a trip depend on weather, because I have to work no matter what. But sun is what 90 percent of the people who visit the Mexican Caribbean are counting on.

Topless Pictures: Only Ladies

(1b. BTW, lowlight of the year: Totally failing to learn to scuba dive. My plan was to take my course in NYC, then do certification dives in Cozumel. But I got so panicked and agitated in NYC that I never even got my paperwork to move on. I spent two weeks gnashing my teeth at my impatient instructor, and I have a million reasons for thinking this sport is not for me: expensive, tons of gear, requires a buddy, other divers, why would I go down deep where all the color goes away, etc. But it’s entirely possible I’m just rationalizing.)

2. I really got to like Twitter. Not much of an accomplishment, but it has been fun to go from feeling baffled and overwhelmed by something to seeing it as a tool and really connecting with a few excellent people through it.

3. I finally wrote down why I like Cancun. Everyone thinks I’m nuts when I say I love Cancun. I finally wrote my defense of the place. I’m not necessarily saying that you, with your only-two-weeks-of-vacation per year, should choose it above all other options. But you shouldn’t slag it off either. And it’s cool to see other travel writers encouraging the “love the one you’re with” approach I took to Cancun. Matt Gross’s “Getting Lost” column in The New York Times (great article on Chongqing), and Afar’s “Spin the Globe” stories are especially inspiring.

4. I finally wrote down all the specific things I like in Cancun, in an iPhone app. After eight years of writing guidebooks according to extremely precise instructions, for as broad an audience as possible, I can’t tell you how fun it was to write Cool Cancun & Isla Mujeres. I got to choose the subject, I wrote in my exact style, for exactly the people I imagine will use it, and I didn’t have to worry about word count or other directives. And when something changes, I can update it immediately, instead of three years later. Totally gratifying. I’m not predicting the death of the printed guidebook anytime soon. But I’m pleased to see how well smartphone apps can share info, and I’m proud to have a little hand in it.

5. Blog posts here have gotten less frequent. Wait, there’s a positive spin! I’ve had a ton of real, paid writing work this year, so too busy to blog. But also, I go back and look at those old posts, and they’re freakin’ epic. I don’t know if I’d read them today. Shorter posts, more photos–I kinda like it. I hope you do too. (This coming month, I will have been blogging for six years. I feel ancient.)

6. Rick Bayless said he liked my cookbook! I met him in January in Bangkok. Thanks to the aforementioned Twitter, I was able to introduce myself as the person who’d commented on his tweet on why Americans aren’t willing to pay big bucks for Mexican food. And then Peter (thank god for Peter!) mentioned I’d co-written Forking Fantastic!, and El Rey de Manteca said, “Oh! I know your book! I loved it. I gave it to my publishers to show them that entertaining books don’t have to be all slick and glossy and have pictures of the chef everywhere.”

I can’t help but notice that Fiesta at Rick’s is pretty glossy after all (and happens to have a killer recipe for this stuff called salsa negra–check it!), while FF! is probably teetering at the edge of the remainder bin. I am proud not only that Bayless liked the book, but so did Anthony Bourdain and Jamie Oliver—and, more important, scores of people who’ve told me it has inspired them to cook. Which is what I hoped all along.

7. I have a place to hang a hammock. Not a personal accomplishment at all, but the process went so smoothly, it was actually life-affirming. We hired two men named Rocco, and they carried out our architect’s plan, and now we have a roof deck, a place to lounge and watch the train go by. There are some nice plants up there, and a fig tree that one Rocco gave to us. And the colors are “very Miami,” according to the green-roof dude. But hey, a little Miami in Queens almost makes sense, just like all the other aesthetic choices here.

Overall, though, I’d say we’re going for a retro junkyard vibe, against the better wishes of our architect. Yeah, that’s an ice chest on the right.

roof deck

8. I got stuck in Amsterdam. Dude, hasn’t everyone? But really—this was the volcano talking. That thing blew near the end of my research trip, and I got held over for another week. (See how I’ve avoided mentioning the name of the volcano, just so I won’t have to go look up how to spell it?)

I seem to have a knack (so far, don’t jinx me, knock on wood, alhamdulillah, etc) for apparent travel disasters turning into non-events. In this case, “disaster” was even a godsend. I had extra time to research and write. And I met some nice guys who were also stuck there, and who were visiting Amsterdam for the first time, which reminded me of what that was like. Oh, and travel insurance paid for everything, including nights in some really nice hotels. A thousand thanks to whatever arranged all that.

From Amsterdam…the second installment

9. I bought a new camera. Overcame decision paralysis and bought myself a DSLR. Now I just have to figure out how to use it.

10. I made it to Asia. Now I just have to go back. Tickets are booked for January 5. In coach (no magical biz-class “mistake fare” this time). I’ll just focus on how happy I was at this food court in Bangkok. For 21 hours of limited recline.

Food Court

Cheers to 2011, and best of luck with all your travels and new projects in the coming year! What were your greatest hits of 2010?

13 comments

  1. Vic says:

    Now those are some prutty good reasons!
    Well done!

    Business and health wise not so good a year for me, sold my house, moved to Edam and swallow some more pills… Oh yeah, I shoot up too! Diabetic.

    BUT, 2010 was still a good year.
    Why?
    ’cause I am humbly grateful for all my friends.
    That’s gonna make 2011 as good as they come!

    Cheers,
    Vic

    (have an oyster) Some like it raw 🙂

  2. zora says:

    Vic, highlight 8b was eating oysters in Amsterdam with you! I wish you better health in 2011–but of course keep shooting up so long as it helps! 🙂

  3. Sarah says:

    funny and entertaining post. I learned to scuba dive but almost drowned in the shallow end of the pool. It isn’t my favorite sport. Awesome reasons not to complain! cheers for the new year, Sarah

  4. Sara Jane says:

    I LOVE THIS LIST!!! i feel inspired to go make my own, but picking up and leaving my home town to move to a tiny isla in mexico may require more of a novella that blogable list. anyways, you are charming and adorable as always. watch out 2011, zora is coming for you!

  5. zora says:

    Thanks, Sara Jane! Meeting you was a Mexico highlight, for sure! And you should definitely make your own list–and even if you don’t, you better be keeping good notes on your Isla time. I want to hear all the silly details sometime.

    Sarah, I’m very glad to hear I’m not the only person flailing around in the pool. And thanks for being on Twitter too–it’s great keeping up with you there. I might even make it to Israel this year!

  6. zora says:

    Aw, thanks, Tal! And nice timing–I was actually just thinking this morning how happy I am to know you. Thanks for all your encouragement over the years. And so great to see you in SF!

  7. Looks like a good list, even if there’s no mention of New Mexico on it.

    I can relate to the scuba panic. Tried it once in Bermuda, a so-called “resort dive” where they teach you the bare minimum then take you on a brief excursion. Had some major ear pain and mild fear of drowning until I managed to clear my sinuses and enjoy the dive. Won’t do it again, though– they usually don’t let people with a history of heart trouble dive. Sigh.

    FF was indeed an inspirational read. While losing 40 pounds this summer, I kinda got into cooking. Still haven’t had a party yet, but it could happen…

    I envy your trip to Asia. Would love to go back to Bangkok, and really enjoyed Singapore… but it’s been 20 years.

    Thanks again for the tip on your acquaintance’s blog posts on Nola; t-minus 10 days and counting!

  8. zora says:

    Have a great NOLA trip, Mitch–so cool you’re taking the train too! Sorry I left NM off the list–I got a little overwhelmed because I actually spent so much time there this year, I didn’t know what to boil it down to. (OMG, just remembered I went to my high school reunion, even. Talk about a blip…) Maybe it boils down to pistachio gelato, hmmmm?

    And when you do throw a dinner party, I want to hear all about it! Glad I could be a part of inspiring you to cook and lose weight!

  9. I miss your more regular blogposts, but I’m happy for you that you have been busy writing and getting paid for it. Hope to see you in Amsterdam again or who knows where else in the world!

  10. Katy says:

    Zora, though I’ve bitten the scuba bullet but have to say that your reasons for not doing so are way solid. People look at you like your nuts when you tell them you need to rent ALL the gear if you don’t feel like paying for all that stuff, which is the boat I’m in. But it is PURE MAGIC to be able to breathe underwater as humans were never meant to so I’d persevere, even if you only plan to dive once a year.

    Great list for 2010 (and new porch – exciting albeit not for a few more months). I’m most taken with your defense of Cancun – you had me laughing out loud more than once, and it was very eye-opening. In Santa Marta, Colombia, I had a similar experience: I became annoyed with how touristy the place was, with locals aggressively selling their chintzy wares, following people into restaurants, etc. I eventually realized why this was: other Colombians there on vacation from the chillier south were all snapping up the keychains and plastic Jesus bead bracelets like hotcakes! What I was experiencing was an authentic place and the commerce benign and sensible: I was the fish out of water and needed to get over myself.

    Also, as usual, you’re making me lust for a Yucatan trip!

  11. zora says:

    Klary, thanks for the support for old-format blogging. I do kind of wish I still had time for it–somehow it’s more satisfying just to write whatever the hell I want, whenever I want, never mind the whole “for money” part.

    Katy, great to hear your story about Colombia–hilarious! Those pesky plastic Jesus bead bracelets… As for diving, I need to get to the “pure magic” zone–still stuck in the “this is so, so wrong!” zone.

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